Stradling the LineFor most of my time in the lifestyle, I have considered myself extremely submissive. When I was younger, it was almost a competition. I…1d ago1d ago
Equity of Needs in a D/s Relationship“The paradox is that the needs of the master are not, in fact, superior to the needs of the submissive. Rather, they share equal…5d ago5d ago
When Your Service Heart Feels Out of ReachThere are a few different ways to approach service as a submissive. You can approach a task feeling disgruntled, irritated by the necessity…Dec 4Dec 4
How BDSM Impacts My Mental HealthIn the last 16 years that I have been in the BDSM lifestyle, I have tried my best to explore how mental health affects and is affected by…Nov 27Nov 27
A Reflective Journal Entry on Mental HealthThis is a recent journal entry that I wrote. It has content about self injury, suicide, trauma, and mental health issues. If you a…Nov 23Nov 23
Tactile DefensivFor years, I have felt like there was something wrong with me. It wasn’t about the fact that I was into kinky shit, I got over that long…Nov 13Nov 13
Weekly Deep Dive- Mental BondageMental bondage is a form of psychological domination and submission to impose restraints rather than physical items such as rope, cuffs, or…Nov 6Nov 6
