SPLF Part 2: Now That the Dust Has SettledI want to take the time to express some thoughts about my first SPLF before drop really sets in. I know that I will need to reflect further…4h ago4h ago
Energy and BDSM“…what we’re seeking is an experience of being alive, so that our life experiences on the purely physical plane will have resonances within…1d ago1d ago
South Plains Leatherfest 2025 Part 1: In The Thick of ItIt’s odd to find myself questioning everything at almost 40. 5 years ago, I knew that I was submissive, through and through. I knew that…2d ago2d ago
Are You Topping From the Bottom?“You’re topping from the bottom, Mrs. Grey. But I can live with that.”Mar 19Mar 19
A Reflection of GriefIt’s almost been a year. And while I was aware of how the time has passed, aware in the front part of my brain that this date was…Mar 17Mar 17
When Submission is DiffiuSubmission isn’t always pretty or easy. The internet, fetlife, books, are all filled with stories and pictures of submissives gracefully…Mar 16Mar 16
Weekly Deep Dive- Erotic HumiliationOne of my early deep dives was on praise kink and anti-humiliation. I was difficult for me to admit that this was something I enjoyed…Mar 12Mar 12
Weekly Deep Dive: Bathroom Use ControlOffering up control as a submissive is the name of the game. Whether you are just partnering up with someone for a scene or participating…Mar 6Mar 6
I Might be a Switch but…There are many sides to my personality and sometimes I feel the clash of them. I’m on the heavily masochistic side, but I’m also a little…Mar 2Mar 2
Submissive Conditioning and the Neurodivergent BrainThere was a post I came across on fetlife last week about the conditioning that happens in a submissive’s brain in the process of…Feb 261Feb 261
