Trauma, Control, and SubmissionTrigger warning: This post talks about abuse, anxiety disorders, trauma, and other triggering topics. Please care for yourself.2d ago2d ago
Chronic Pain and BDSM part 2Pain is defined by the International Association for the Study of Pain as an unpleasant sensory and/or emotional experience associated…4d ago4d ago
Chronic Pain and BDMy Weekly Deep Dive is about Chronic Pain and BDSM. Before I can get to the how, I want to talk about the why.5d ago5d ago
Fly HighSometimes things don’t go to plan. You can negotiate a scene, discuss it a month in advance, and energy will take you where it wants you to…Jun 7Jun 7
Weekly Deep Dive: Let’s Make Music ToMusic is a magical element that can transcend language, cultural differences, and even time. Not only can pieces transport us back to the…Jun 4Jun 4
There is a woman in my life that I have known for almost 13 years.Mentoring is a special kind of relationship. I am of the firm belief that when a mentor relationship exists, no romantic or power exchange…May 31May 31
Weekly Deep Dive: Leather and EducatiI don’t know if it was the time period that I came into the lifestyle community or the area that I played in when I was new, but easily…May 28May 28
Negotiating New DynaNegotiating is a basic skill in the BDSM world and one of the first that a new bottom or top should work on practicing. It is pretty easy…May 21May 21
The Ritual We Share-The word ritual is a BDSM hot key- it is something that a lot of people assume is a part of a dynamic, a given sort of activity, usually…May 14May 14
