Abrasion Play- Weekly Deep Dive

Years ago, I was at a party at a kink club. There was a top there who was a cross country trucker. He had memberships at various clubs across the country and would stop into them when he was in town. He was a very nice guy, very respectful, and one of the few people I have met that I was interested in playing with as a one off, but I never got the chance. One of his specialties was abrasion play. He did a scene with a woman that night, and among the many toys that he pulled out was an electric handheld sander with fine grit sandpaper. It struck something in my weird little masochistic brain that stuck.

https://psychology.fandom.com/wiki/Abrasion_(BDSM)

Abrasion play is the use of abrasive substances on the body of the bottom. This can range from sandpaper of different grits to birching (using twigs with the leaves on for caning/striking purposes). Wool and thistles are also used. A Dutch Rub (An act of roughly rubbing one’s knuckles across the top of another person’s head with the intent of causing pain and humiliation, often while pinning the other person’s head with one’s free arm) is also considered abrasion play.

https://bdsmtrainingacademy.com/encyclopedia/abrasion-play/

“a activity used to stimulate and sensitize a person’s skin. This can be performed gently to create a mild sensation and help to sensitize the skin with an item like a hairbrush. With some mild rubbing from a hairbrush, a spank, a gentle touch, even a light blow of your breath can become heightened.
Skin on…