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Organization for S-types
I will happily, unabashedly claim that I am a type-A personality. I thrive on organization. I like schedules and budgets. I am so on time, I’m usually early. I run my life with calendars and to-do lists. So, it is ironic that the people I love, the people I’m surrounded by are all quite the opposite. Every single one of them have ADHD and all it comes with- chaos living, time blindness, disorganization, frequently late. This has been the case with my chosen partners for two decades and has been a great motivation in adapting my service skills to play personal assistant.
As a submissive, partner, or friend, I use service skills to improve many facets of the lives of the people I care about. While some of these skills came naturally to me, others were things that I had to learn. Beyond learning the individual skills, I had to change the mindset that I had when I performed them. I had to find joy in my acts of service, find beauty and grace, which is far more important than the acts themselves.
There are services that not every submissive is capable of offering. Everyone has limits, and that applies to acts of service as much as it applies to types of play. When considering this type of service, submissive’s should check in with themselves and consider how they would feel about someone having a level of reliance on them- would it cause you to feel resentful? Overwhelmed? Do you have so much on your plate on a regular basis and caring for another human being in this matter would cause everything to collapse?